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" SAY NO TO THE CHEATER'S "
THIS IS THE WAR ON CHEATER'S!!!!
LOL! YOU HAVE TO STAND FOR SOMETHING!
OR YOU WILL KEEP FALLING FOR ANYTHING!
IF YOU THINK THEY ARE CHEATING!
9 TIMES OUT OF 10!
" THEY ARE " IF YOU THINK IT'S IN YOUR HOME! SET UP A CAM!
THERE IS NO TELLING WHAT YOU WILL SEE.AND AFTERWARDS! SEND IT IN!!!!!
PUT A APP ON THEIR PHONE! WE WILL BE PROVIDING A LIST OF GOOD ONES! THAT REALLY WORK! AND AFTERWARDS! SEND IN YOUR FOOTAGE AN AUDIO FILES. NO NAME NEEDED! WE JUST WANT TO SEE OR HEAR WHAT YOU CAPTURE! NO PRESSURE! LET'S JUST BUST THEM!
" THE CHEATER'S "
LOL! YOU HAVE TO STAND FOR SOMETHING!
OR YOU WILL KEEP FALLING FOR ANYTHING!
IF YOU THINK THEY ARE CHEATING!
9 TIMES OUT OF 10!
" THEY ARE " IF YOU THINK IT'S IN YOUR HOME! SET UP A CAM!
THERE IS NO TELLING WHAT YOU WILL SEE.AND AFTERWARDS! SEND IT IN!!!!!
PUT A APP ON THEIR PHONE! WE WILL BE PROVIDING A LIST OF GOOD ONES! THAT REALLY WORK! AND AFTERWARDS! SEND IN YOUR FOOTAGE AN AUDIO FILES. NO NAME NEEDED! WE JUST WANT TO SEE OR HEAR WHAT YOU CAPTURE! NO PRESSURE! LET'S JUST BUST THEM!
" THE CHEATER'S "
"CATCH YOUR CHEATER"
CATCH THEM & PUT THEM IN THIS BAG! AN SET IT ON FIRE! & THROW IT AWAY!
"YOU CAN DO BETTER! AND TRASH DESERVE TO BE IN A "TRASH BAG"!
"2013" THE YEAR OF NO STRESSING! NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO! IF YOUR SPOUSE WANTS TO CHEAT! THEY ARE GONNA CHEAT! AN YOU HAVE TO BE SMART ENOUGH! TO KNOW WHEN THEY ARE CHEATING!
WE ALL HAVE BEEN THREW! IF YOUR NOT BEING CHEATED ON NOW! BUT HAVE BEEN IN THE PAST! PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR EXPERIENCE BELOW! THANKS AN BE "OVA DE BULLSHIT"!
"YOU CAN DO BETTER! AND TRASH DESERVE TO BE IN A "TRASH BAG"!
"2013" THE YEAR OF NO STRESSING! NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO! IF YOUR SPOUSE WANTS TO CHEAT! THEY ARE GONNA CHEAT! AN YOU HAVE TO BE SMART ENOUGH! TO KNOW WHEN THEY ARE CHEATING!
WE ALL HAVE BEEN THREW! IF YOUR NOT BEING CHEATED ON NOW! BUT HAVE BEEN IN THE PAST! PLEASE SUBMIT YOUR EXPERIENCE BELOW! THANKS AN BE "OVA DE BULLSHIT"!
YOU GET CAUGHT DOING THIS!!!
DO YOU KNOW SUM1 THAT IS CHEATING? AND THEIR MATE WONT BELIEVE YOU WHEN YOU TELL THEM! AND YOU NEED US TO HELP YOU PROVE IT! WELL, FILL IN THE FORM BELOW! AN WE WOULD LOVE TO HELP YOU BUST THE CHEATER! ONLY IF YOU ALLOW US TO PUT IT ON AIR! SO IF YOUR COMFORTABLE WITH EXPOSING THE CHEATER FOR THE WORLD TO SEE THEN! "CALL US" OR EMAIL US! THANKS!
CHEATER'S SUBMISSION:
My husband works from home and lately has been acting strange and has no
interest in becoming intimate. The other day I was putting away clothes
and found a sock that wasn’t mine and when I confronted him about it he
laughed his lying / nervous smile. So I decided to get a camera that
recorded our living room and bedroom and after watching the tape I saw
there were two separate women coming at separate times about every other
day. I was so disgusted that I nearly threw up. Needless to say I threw
all of his *profane* into the street and had the locks changed.
My husband works from home and lately has been acting strange and has no
interest in becoming intimate. The other day I was putting away clothes
and found a sock that wasn’t mine and when I confronted him about it he
laughed his lying / nervous smile. So I decided to get a camera that
recorded our living room and bedroom and after watching the tape I saw
there were two separate women coming at separate times about every other
day. I was so disgusted that I nearly threw up. Needless to say I threw
all of his *profane* into the street and had the locks changed.
CHEATER'S SUBMISSION:
I discovered my husband was texting another woman. For three months I read the messages until he saw me with his phone. I comfronted him and he denied an afair. He deleted the messagees and said there wasn't any in his phone. He even denied knowing the woman. When I saw the first set of texts I called the number and she answered the phone. She answered three other times but once I confronted my husband she stopped answering blocked numbers. Once I called using his phoone she picked up and when she heard my voice she hung up. I text her and told her I knew about her. She got her daughter to call me to say my husband was her mother's friend. She promised her mother will call me. She never did. I then texted her again this time I told her that she will be named in my divorce proceedings. She replied immediately and said that my husband was an old friend of the family and he and her boyfriend are good friend.I never heard about her before. If he was an old friend of the family I would have met her. When he was confronted he never mentioned that. However, he is now telling me he knew her mother and brotherinlaw. When confronted that there were pictures of them he responded " any pictures, they are inocent, I cant stop people from taking pictures of me. he added that her brother in law had social gathering he attended with other people on the job and she was there. He even told me that a coworker father died and he saw her at the funeral.This lead me to believe she is a coworker. I said to her, since my husband is your boyfriend's "good griend" then I guess your boyfriend will be happy to see the messages between his GOOD FRIEND and his so call girl friend. My husband still does not admit to an affair, so I asked him to call her so that I can listen in to the conversation, he agreed but continues to make excuses, either its too early or too late. I finally said forget it. I know there was an affair and it has been for many years because I had found that same name and number in his work phone. I wrote the name and number because it was a frequent number in his phone. My husband begged me to give him another chance, that it would never happen again, yet he will not explain the text messages. Still denies the affair. I have consulted with a lawyer and will get a divorce from him. He was hardly home anyway, you can't miss someone that was never there, anyway. I would call him twenty times and he would not answer. There are times that I called him and somehow the phone was on and I have heard loud voices including his voice and a woman voice, music, like it was a bar or a party. He would come home till the next morning. I saw my husband about two hours a week. Just briefly, for ten to fifteen minutes in the evening or at night. This is the ultimate betrayal by someone I was with for more than thirty years. Its been four month of hell. The day I found out, something died inside of me. He is telling me he loves me and doesnt want a divorce and at the same time doesnt admit to the affair. He had not sat down with me and explain although, he thinks he did. I cannot live with a man I cant trust. I will never be able to trust him again. I am looking forward to a new life. I havent given up on marriage. I will be happy again. I know I can never try to work it out and save the marriage. Once the trust is gone, its gone. I do not want to live every moment question myself, if i stay with him. Once a cheater always a cheater. I do not want to feel this way agail. I will be O.K once he is out of my life.
I discovered my husband was texting another woman. For three months I read the messages until he saw me with his phone. I comfronted him and he denied an afair. He deleted the messagees and said there wasn't any in his phone. He even denied knowing the woman. When I saw the first set of texts I called the number and she answered the phone. She answered three other times but once I confronted my husband she stopped answering blocked numbers. Once I called using his phoone she picked up and when she heard my voice she hung up. I text her and told her I knew about her. She got her daughter to call me to say my husband was her mother's friend. She promised her mother will call me. She never did. I then texted her again this time I told her that she will be named in my divorce proceedings. She replied immediately and said that my husband was an old friend of the family and he and her boyfriend are good friend.I never heard about her before. If he was an old friend of the family I would have met her. When he was confronted he never mentioned that. However, he is now telling me he knew her mother and brotherinlaw. When confronted that there were pictures of them he responded " any pictures, they are inocent, I cant stop people from taking pictures of me. he added that her brother in law had social gathering he attended with other people on the job and she was there. He even told me that a coworker father died and he saw her at the funeral.This lead me to believe she is a coworker. I said to her, since my husband is your boyfriend's "good griend" then I guess your boyfriend will be happy to see the messages between his GOOD FRIEND and his so call girl friend. My husband still does not admit to an affair, so I asked him to call her so that I can listen in to the conversation, he agreed but continues to make excuses, either its too early or too late. I finally said forget it. I know there was an affair and it has been for many years because I had found that same name and number in his work phone. I wrote the name and number because it was a frequent number in his phone. My husband begged me to give him another chance, that it would never happen again, yet he will not explain the text messages. Still denies the affair. I have consulted with a lawyer and will get a divorce from him. He was hardly home anyway, you can't miss someone that was never there, anyway. I would call him twenty times and he would not answer. There are times that I called him and somehow the phone was on and I have heard loud voices including his voice and a woman voice, music, like it was a bar or a party. He would come home till the next morning. I saw my husband about two hours a week. Just briefly, for ten to fifteen minutes in the evening or at night. This is the ultimate betrayal by someone I was with for more than thirty years. Its been four month of hell. The day I found out, something died inside of me. He is telling me he loves me and doesnt want a divorce and at the same time doesnt admit to the affair. He had not sat down with me and explain although, he thinks he did. I cannot live with a man I cant trust. I will never be able to trust him again. I am looking forward to a new life. I havent given up on marriage. I will be happy again. I know I can never try to work it out and save the marriage. Once the trust is gone, its gone. I do not want to live every moment question myself, if i stay with him. Once a cheater always a cheater. I do not want to feel this way agail. I will be O.K once he is out of my life.
CHEATER'S SUBMISSION:
My "dumb" husband would always talk about the new girlfriend. Couldn't keep his mouth shut. First one was a co-worker. It was always, Judy this, Judy that, Judy, Judy,Judy! Once when I visited his place of business he took me upstairs to the lunch room. Two seconds later, who should show up....JUDY! LOL
The second girlfriend was someone that he had gone to school with. She was now divorced and worked at a local store that we frequented. Suddenly he was talking about her all the time, even told me that they had coffee together at the store cafeteria! When we shopped together, he suddenly didn't want to be near me, would go off to wander around the store by himself. When we would check out, I always made sure we went through girlfriends line, those two would always be frendly and chat together. But when I went through her line alone, she pretended to not know who I was. So one day I set him up. Made a statement about the workers at the store being stressed. We were in a local dounut shop and he was on his way to work. I left for home and parked in the store parking lot. It wasn't 5 min. and he pulled into the parking lot and went into the store. Of course I followed him and caught them conversing in a corner! He had to admit what was going on then. you two enjoy each other!
My "dumb" husband would always talk about the new girlfriend. Couldn't keep his mouth shut. First one was a co-worker. It was always, Judy this, Judy that, Judy, Judy,Judy! Once when I visited his place of business he took me upstairs to the lunch room. Two seconds later, who should show up....JUDY! LOL
The second girlfriend was someone that he had gone to school with. She was now divorced and worked at a local store that we frequented. Suddenly he was talking about her all the time, even told me that they had coffee together at the store cafeteria! When we shopped together, he suddenly didn't want to be near me, would go off to wander around the store by himself. When we would check out, I always made sure we went through girlfriends line, those two would always be frendly and chat together. But when I went through her line alone, she pretended to not know who I was. So one day I set him up. Made a statement about the workers at the store being stressed. We were in a local dounut shop and he was on his way to work. I left for home and parked in the store parking lot. It wasn't 5 min. and he pulled into the parking lot and went into the store. Of course I followed him and caught them conversing in a corner! He had to admit what was going on then. you two enjoy each other!
CHEATER'S SUBMISSION:
- My girlfriend of 6 months ended up being unfaithful. Regardless of the hallow words she spewed constantly. “I love you!” All the time, earning my trust with her venomous words. So, she calls me after work on a Monday (she has Tuesdays off) and tells me that “tension seems high with the roommates.” Ok that’s cool, I go to my friends house to play quarters. I call her again that night, she was drunk, with a couple people.
But then I find out why she didn’t want me to come over, or her come to me, because the guy below (I’ve seen her chats with him, flirtatious etc) was her highschool boyfriend.
So anyways, about 3 days later, I spend the night at her place, we watch a movie and fall asleep, I didn’t feel like having relations for some reason (thank God, probably dodged a bullet)
In the morning she was acting weird when getting ready for work, and emotional. She was asking me to get her a coffee and to go get her car so she can do her laundry at her moms after work. Off the bat something felt suspicious, a gut instinct. Usually we just walk out together.
I tell her no. (I was going to comply with her wishes, but I seriously, I can almost feel guilt in the room and her tense mood).
We walk outside and she starts trying to guilt trip me for RANDOM things. I was just like, whoa, where is this all coming from? Are you alright? What’s wrong?
*Sniffle, tear, sniffle* “I see so and so and they look so happy together, having nice steak dinners!”
She pissed me off when she said that, because the two ppl she named are malicious and ungodly people. “Are you on your period…?” I said it to anger her.
By now, I can sense her guilty conscience. She out of nowhere started trying to guilt trip me over trivial shit. Blaming hormones….
well it turns out my instincts were right. Now I just had to prove it, but I already knew no one would tell me the TRUTH if I asked. I needed to know what went on that monday night she avoided me. Well, it turns out the guy from highschool was in town and they had a handle of rum (For the LIFE of me, I don’t remember how I know this fact, it might have been a lucky educated guess, I really don’t know).
So I’m trying to think frantically, maddening thoughts were consuming me. I was ridden with anxiety.
Was I just insecure and jealous like she told me? Or do I have a reasonable basis? I had to figure it out. Because I wasn’t going to take any more of her disrespect and irresponsible actions (2-3 redflags in the past, but I forgave)
Especially since she’s a 6-6.5 (she had a cool personality), and, well, I’m not one to boast, but a lot of girls show interest in me when they meet me.
So I spontaneously came up with a plan . I was going to call my gf, already expecting her to sound as if nothing was wrong. But first, I send the guy three messages over the course of about 6-7 hours.
Me: be honest, did you get physical with my girlfriend? Because a female can't admit truth apparently. So now i'm asking you, I just want to know the truth.
Me: I hope you haven't taken some code of silence. It will benefit us both if you speak the truth
Me: well, chances are you either 1) haven't gotten to your facebook yet or 2) purposely ignoring me.
then, I maybe I should just assume the worse happened that night. Sounded suspicious because she was sleeping on the couch , canceled plans with me that night, and drank an entire bottle of alcohol with you guys.
From this point, I had a feeling the guy was reading my messages, but ignoring me, so I decided to have my friend send a friend request, “Hey dude!”
**This is when I called my gf, she answered casually, “Heya!” Asked her what’s up, etc. THEN, I straight up say, “Hey, how come GuyX isn’t answering my questions on facebook? He’s purposely ignoring me because he just added my friend? Utter speechlessness and silence ensued for a while, “Hello???” (Gotcha muthuhbuster, her utter silence gave her away big time). At first I thought the call died, but it was still going. I hang up, and call her back. She confesses and tells me GuyX came over……drank, and at the end they made out. She says they didn’t have sex, but at this point, after catching her in so many lies, I just assumed the worse.
Then…
5 min later, he accepted the request. So off the bat I knew he saw my messages, but was ignoring me for some fishy reason. He took the bait.
ME: Couldn't you just simply tell me? I knew you were there all along. Not like I'm going to threaten you or anything, jeez man
(now he finally responds)
Him: I just logged in, busy day.
We partied, she was plastered. She tried to wrestle with me, but it was jus in e living room. I still have rugburns.
She wanted to go for a walk and I figured it'd be good to get the alcohol out of her system.
We talked at great length about life but then I made sure she got home safe and I headed out.
Happy?
Me: ya? you know how I know i'm smarter than you? because I just got her to admit to me she made out with you (which i assume she ****ed you too) on the phone
Go out with her, her reasoning was, "she liked u before she liked me and i was drunk".
Him: Never ****ed her actually.
Have fun being insecure!
And of course, a lot of drama in between, trying to figure it all out. But the truth prevailed. Mind you, I have never disrespected her by doing shit like this. All I wanted was the same mutual respect. She lied and spewed venom like a viper.
But then, I just remember seeing her teary eyes, knowing she did something she regretted that morning, because she realized she likes me, not him….That she knew if something like that were to happen, it would end….So that was the last straw and I broke up with her (with all the goodies and chats in between of course) …But damn it, man, how many times must I forgive a person? ****ing learn from your mistakes the first time.
And get a load of this, this is what she said Right before I find out the actual truth:
(23 hours ago):
Her: You are right (my name), I am needlessly worrying you. Im going to call you when I get off work. I talked to my mom and she kind of put it into perspective for me. Cuz see.... My mom and dad were divorced when I was young, but they were still friends, so I guess it makes me want to be friend with my exes. But... and the fact that it makes you jealous is completely understandable. I get upset because I trust myself to do the right thing, and you trust me, but you dont trust bill especially when theres alcohol. So... After sort of realizing all this and seeing how I shouldnt be getting mad at you for bringing this stuff up, im just going to bot do those things that worry you anymore. Im going to try harder to respect your feelings, and even when we are not hanging out, I want you to feel respected, so I am going to work on that. Sorry for being such a stubborn bull, but I can give a little and realize I am not always right.
Me: thank you! your response makes me happy.
And, to think, I was about to ask her Mother what she thought about it, but then I decided to just call my girlfriend instead and confront her.